Alcoholism Destroyed My Life
Posted: Friday, December 04, 2009
by Ronyae
Writings by Ronyae
As I watched a holiday program, I couldn't help but imagine how alcoholism destroys more lives than the alcoholic.
In the TV special, the star character wasn't a heavy drinker. But that's not what an alcoholic or alcoholism is. I learned in "drunk class" that anytime something negative/bad happens when a person drinks, makes them an alcoholic, and is the main sympton of alcoholism; alcoholism is a disease.
Most diseases are fatal, and in the sense of the disease of alcoholism, you can count on a death. Not just a physical death, and not by killing your internal organs.
In the program, the star character allowed alcoholism to kill her job, relationship with her fiance and friends. I would like to talk more on the subject of alcoholism. But, I have a question first ... What would you do to help a loved one, who's life is being destroyed by alcoholism? Can you treat alcoholism like any other disease ... Wut yoU'd Do?
In the TV special, the star character wasn't a heavy drinker. But that's not what an alcoholic or alcoholism is. I learned in "drunk class" that anytime something negative/bad happens when a person drinks, makes them an alcoholic, and is the main sympton of alcoholism; alcoholism is a disease.
In the program, the star character allowed alcoholism to kill her job, relationship with her fiance and friends. I would like to talk more on the subject of alcoholism. But, I have a question first ... What would you do to help a loved one, who's life is being destroyed by alcoholism? Can you treat alcoholism like any other disease ... Wut yoU'd Do?
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Top-level comments on this article: (6 total)Hi Ronyae,To answer your question. YES, there is hope. Alcoholics Anonymous has helped millions of people through the years to find recovery from alcoholism. If you want to "help" a loved one find recovery I would advise joining an Alanon group; this is a support group for those who have a loved one who is an alcoholic.Mark
Ronyae, I don't believe I am qualified to deal with alcoholic problems in today's society. I know I had my share of drinking and being a problem to others. I know today I deeply regret things I've said in the past and I can't blame anyone else but myself. I only wish I had not been such a fool in the past. I've put my trust in the Lord to help me along today.To answer your question I believe anyone who suffers from an alcoholic problem today is to try to find someone they can consult in to share their pain and suffering. "loneliness is the greatest poverty of all" Mother Teresa
What a short teaser that hinted at rather than disclosed.I scrolled down looking for more and felt cheated; you have only whetted my appetite.I am one who has recently taken to drinking by sipping fine cognacs with an elitist air and a patent disregard for alcohol's insidious addictive nature.I was hoping for a 'bleed to the edge of the plate' confessional expose' dinner and only got a whiff of a tiny appetizer.Perhaps you felt naked and vunerable in writing about your frailties and thus throttled this article in the womb before its birth.I am 'thirsty' for more; give me more; I must have more!
Ronyae, great topic. Very engaging article. I have seen alcoholism pass from generation to generation. Unfortunately, many children who grow up with alcoholics become accustomed to drinking and do not question it. Some go on to marry alcoholics. I like your definition of alcoholism. It includes the regular weekend drinkers whose drinking disrupts family life. Thank you for writing about this difficult subject.
Hope you do some more pieces on this topic - I can add that to my list of things that I am thankful for because our Jesus pulled me feet first out of a bottle now some 35 years ago and I love having a clear head and that I am able to savor each and every minute that He has given me. Marijo
Ronyae,I am somewhat confused by your article and have missed something, somewhere along the line. As supportive as friends and family members can be, it is only when the alcoholic recognizes and accepts the problem that he or she can begin the journey to change.
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